Shared Lives carers Michelle and Gary Jones win award for exceptional care

The ceremony, held at Cardiff’s Holland House Hotel, celebrated the work of care professionals across Wales. Michelle, 56, and Gary, 62, have cared for twin brothers, Michael and Peter, since they were just three months old. The twins, who have significant additional needs, have been treated like the couple’s own children, with the twins calling Michelle and Gary ‘mum’ and ‘dad’ and referring to the Joneses’ three children as their ‘brothers’ and ‘sister’.

Sharon Savory, Coordinator of the South East Wales Shared Lives Scheme, nominated the couple for their exceptional dedication. “They see the boys as their own; they’ve grown up alongside their own children and are treated like family members,” Sharon said. “Michelle and Gary are just one complete unit that works. We call them ‘our gold dust’—they never cease to amaze me.”

Peter has faced complex medical challenges, including epilepsy, profound deafness, and ADHD. His kidney function began to fail in his teens, and he needed a transplant. However, his rare blood type made it hard to find a match. Gary volunteered to be tested and was found to be a compatible donor. Six years ago, he donated a kidney to Peter.

“Gary’s decision to donate his kidney wasn’t just an act of kindness,” Sharon said. “It was a testament to the love and commitment he has for Peter. The dedication that Michelle and Gary show is extraordinary. They don’t just meet the needs of the young men they care for—they exceed them.”

Michelle manages Peter’s medical needs, coordinates with healthcare professionals and monitors his diet to keep him healthy. During the pandemic, the family took extra precautions to protect Peter’s health.

While Peter’s needs are complex, his twin brother Michael faces his own challenges. He has learning difficulties and short-term memory loss, which prevent him from living independently. Yet, Michelle and Gary encourage both brothers to socialise and enjoy life outside the home. Last year, they all enjoyed a cruise to Cyprus together.

“Michelle and Gary are exceptional caregivers,” Sharon said. “They empower Michael and Peter, helping them live fulfilling lives while encouraging their independence.” Sharon has worked with Shared Lives for over a decade. “Seeing the difference that carers like Michelle and Gary make is truly inspiring. We need to celebrate people like Michelle and Gary,” Sharon added. “The impact they have on the lives of others is profound. Their story should inspire others to become Shared Lives carers.”

Find out more about South East Wales Shared Lives Scheme at Caerphilly County Borough.